Some MJ fans are upset about Paris Jackson’s recent comments on parasocial relationships and the song she released about what it feels like to be the child of someone who was “devoured alive” by the public. A medium even claimed that Michael Jackson is “upset” by her words. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But I don’t think he is. It just doesn’t resonate. And his Human Design and astrology back that up. Michael understood fame, boundaries, and the weight of public expectation better than anyone. He lived it. And he wrote about it himself. His chart reveals a man who would likely support his daughter’s honesty, not condemn it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I’ve had vivid dreams of Michael before, but recently I had this really strange one, and I think it was meant to show me what it feels like to be in Paris’s position. In the dream, I was a close part of Michael’s personal life. We were in public taking a group photo when a fan stepped right in between us, completely ignoring my presence, as if to diminish the relationship and erase my place beside him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I awoke feeling puzzled by this dream, but now I know it was related to this parasocial discussion. I recently wrote about Paris Jackson’s astrology<\/a>, and I really wish people understood her more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Paris Jackson recently opened up about her decision to keep her relationship with her father private. She spoke about how she does not feel that any of them owe anyone anything, and that what she had with her father was a personal relationship, not a parasocial one. She explained that she no longer feels obligated to express her love in the same way a fan would, because she actually knew him. She was not going to copy someone who did not know him\u2014because he was her best friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Her song, “Just Me and You,” was released on what would have been Michael’s birthday. It has been described as a letter about her honest experience with love, loss, and the difference between parasocial relationships and personal ones. The lyrics speak of being consumed, of being eaten alive, and of how even in death, there is nothing left for others to take.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Some fans are offended by Paris’s use of the word “parasocial” and the song’s imagery of being “eaten alive.” The backlash suggests that these fans feel personally attacked. They interpret her words as a rejection of their love for Michael. But that is not what she is saying. She is drawing a line between public devotion and private relationship\u2014a line that Michael himself understood intimately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Michael was a 1\/3 Emotional Projector<\/strong> with seven undefined centers <\/a><\/a>. This design is extremely sensitive. Projectors are designed to guide and direct, not to be the engine of energy in a room. With so many open centers, Michael was “very empathic, picking up everything from everyone near and far” <\/a>. He absorbed the energy of the world around him and reflected it back through his music and movement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But being open did not mean he lacked boundaries. His defined Heart Center gave him willpower and commitment, but it also made him vulnerable to being exploited by people who wanted to use his energy for their own causes <\/a>. His chart warns that people with a defined Heart Center must be “very particular to whom and to what they commit themselves” <\/a>. He knew what it felt like to have people try to consume him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n His 37-40 Channel (Community\/Aloneness)<\/strong> is particularly relevant here. It speaks to the balance between solitude and community. He grew up carrying immense responsibility for his family, but he also sought the space to recuperate . Gate 40 is the Gate of Aloneness. He needed space. He understood that even in the midst of community, there must be boundaries. He would understand his daughter needing that space too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Astrologically, Michael had a Pisces Moon<\/strong>, which made him deeply sensitive and connected to the emotional currents around him, but also prone to confusion and boundary dissolution <\/a>. His Neptune in the 8th house<\/strong> is one of the most significant placements for understanding his relationship with fame and exploitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The 8th house rules power, control, shared resources, and hidden dynamics. Neptune in the 8th house creates “a profound blindness to power dynamics” <\/a>. Michael knew people were exploiting him, but the Neptune fog prevented him from seeing exactly how or who. He was “living in a state of constant alertness, always sensing danger, but never able to see the full picture clearly enough to protect himself” <\/a>. This placement explains why he was so guarded and why he felt the truth without being able to act on it with clarity <\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He also had songs like “Leave Me Alone,” “Why You Wanna Trip on Me,” and “Tabloid Junkie”\u2014expressions of needing space and wanting to be left alone. He knew what it was like to be consumed by public adoration. He knew it was a form of control, not just love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He knew his fame was a prison as much as a gift. He knew he could not go to a store without causing a scene. He knew that the same love that lifted him up could also trap him. He understood the limits of his own openness, and he was fiercely protective of his children because of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I really don’t think he would condemn his daughter for protecting herself from the same dynamic .<\/p>\n\n\n\n The fans who are most upset by Paris’s comments are the ones who likely need to hear them the most. They are offended by the word “parasocial” because it names something they don’t want to acknowledge: that their connection to Michael is one-sided. They feel entitled to a relationship with him that is equal to or greater than his own daughter’s. That is not love. That is possession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When Paris says her relationship with her father is “no one’s business” and that she won’t express her love “in a copycat way,” she is asserting a boundary . The fans who react with anger are revealing their own lack of boundaries. It’s as if they want Michael to choose them over his own daughter. That is ludicrous, and Michael would be the first to say so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It becomes even more absurd when fans claim a spiritual relationship with him and suggest that his 3D relationship with Paris is somehow inferior to their spiritual one. They position themselves as having a deeper, more meaningful connection\u2014one that transcends the ordinary father-daughter bond. <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is not just entitlement. It is a complete inversion of reality. Paris had a real, lived relationship with her father. They had a private bond. No spiritual claim can supersede that. The fans who try to elevate their own connection above his daughter’s are not just misguided\u2014they are revealing the very possessiveness that Paris was speaking out against.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When asked why Michael could not communicate this directly to Paris, the medium responded that Paris’s frequency was not high enough to receive such messages. <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is a telling deflection. It shifts the blame onto Paris while positioning the medium as the only one capable of bridging the gap. The claim that Michael is too “high frequency” to speak to his own daughter is not just ungrounded\u2014it is manipulative. It uses spiritual hierarchy to elevate the medium’s role while dismissing Paris’s own lived experience and her right to her own relationship with her father. This is a classic control tactic. The medium is not simply relaying a message. They are asserting authority over the connection itself, implying that Paris is somehow spiritually deficient or incapable of receiving what her own father has to say. <\/p>\n\n\n\n From my own experience, the other side does not need to speak through a medium to communicate with someone they love. They can make you feel something\u2014a shift in energy, a sudden knowing, a sense of presence\u2014without ever saying a word. They do not need to be channeled. They do not need to be interpreted. They just need to be felt. The message is the feeling. The confirmation is in the experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And I totally understand what Paris is feeling in her song, “The Breeze”. It’s just that our conscious minds want proof. We want to hear a voice. We want to know that we are not imagining things. But the afterlife does not operate on our terms. It operates on its own. And the most genuine communications are often the ones that do not come with a label or a signature. They are the ones that leave you with a sense of knowing that you cannot explain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Paris does not need a medium to tell her what her father thinks. She knew him. She was his daughter. She has her own experience. And whatever Michael wants to communicate to her, he can do it without a middleman. The medium’s claim is not just false\u2014it is disrespectful. It undermines Paris’s relationship with her father. <\/p>\n\n\n\n As I outlined above, Michael Jackson’s Human Design and astrology reveal a man who understood the weight of public expectation, the need for boundaries, and the importance of protecting what is personal. He would not be angry at Paris for speaking her truth. And he certainly would not need a medium to tell her so.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Some MJ fans are upset about Paris Jackson’s recent comments on parasocial relationships and the song she released about what it feels like to be the child of someone who was “devoured alive” by the public. A medium even claimed that Michael Jackson is “upset” by her words. But I don’t think he is. 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Why Fans Are Upset<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
What Michael’s Human Design Reveals<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
What Michael’s Astrology Reveals<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
The Fans’ Reaction: A Lack of Boundaries<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Final Thoughts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n